Welcome back to another blog hop, with #OpenBook. Here’s this week’s prompt.
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Are there other writers you ‘stalk’ on social media? Who and why?
Not guilty. I wouldn’t dream of behaving in that way.
I tend to keep to myself, I’ve had enough grief on social media over the years to learn that the best policy is to watch everything and say very little.
Due to the dislike and negative opinions that my writing seems to have provoked in various quarters, I no longer post or engage on Twitter or Goodreads, I find them far too toxic. I’m also reducing my time on Facebook, my account was hacked and cloned a while ago and since then, I keep getting reported for spam, when all I’m doing is posting on my own page or adding to a thread in a group. I’m currently on my final warning, next time someone (or more likely one of the Facebook bots) takes offence at what I’ve written and reports me, my account will be deleted.
It never used to be like this. I used to be very active, commenting and participating in conversations with other authors and in groups, but that all changed when someone started posting comments about me that were untrue. When I politely tried to set the record straight, I quickly found the other side of social media, where whatever you say is jumped upon, misrepresented and used against you.
Strangely, my version of my own life, what I did and said and meant was the one that was incorrect.
I always thought that the idea of social media was to be sociable, to converse with like-minded people, make new friends and gain mutual enjoyment. With a few exceptions, I’ve found it to be the opposite, there really are some nasty people out there, who begrudge success and seem determined to be as offensive to anyone who had actually achieved something as possible. Trying to reason with these individuals is impossible. As I discovered, it only makes things worse, what’s more, they have long memories.
It’s getting to the point where I can’t be bothered anymore.
Until next time.
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